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 SEX IN THE MIDDLE AGES
by Lady Eden Blacksmith
If the question is "Did they have sex in the Middle
Ages?"...the answer is yes, a very definite and resounding yes. We mostly have
Pope Gregory IX (13th Century.) to thank for most of our perceptions
and laws regarding sex. The Church also gave standards for us on the levels of
sexual sin: Masturbation, Mutual Masturbation, Interfemoral Intercourse (the
placement of the penis between the thighs of the passive partner) and Anal
Intercourse. Sex, it was taught, was a necessary (reproductive reasons) evil
introduced to humanity by the Devil. Sexual feelings and urges were not fully
under the control of the human will. And, since women as 'the daughters of Satan'
were the reasons for those urges, women were liable for the introduction of sin
through sex. That is not to say the Church did not see sex as necessary and
even profitable. Prostitution for example
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PROSTITUTION
How old is Prostitution? Writings dated back to 1750B.C.
state that it was old even then. Thomas Aquinas said: "if prostitution were to
be suppressed, careless lusts would overthrow society." Pope Gregory IX (13th
Century.) Founded the St. Mary Magdalene (White Ladies), these were previous
prostitutes who though the kindness and generosity of good Wives were given
dowries and sent to marry somewhere else...much emphasis given to somewhere
else. Stews (brothels) were regulated and inspected and taxed by the government
for most of the Middle Ages. Please note in some places and times the Church
was the government. Many 'women of the night' rose to unbelievable heights:
Tullia d'Aragona who was not made to were the 'whore's mirror' (professionals
in 16th. Century. Florence had to were a veil with a yellow stripe
on it), or Rosa Vanozza who had a great career till the age of thirty when she
settled down with Pope Alexander VI and birthed him four love-children.
However, for each Tullia or Rosa countless women were tormented and killed.
Those women who chose or were not permitted to belong to a Stew were at the
mercy of the populace and the law. In the 12th Century, hamstringing
was a common practice in parts of France. Some of them were exhibited in cages,
mutilated, given to prisoners, ducked to death in the river, branded, body
parts chopped off (like a nose or breast) or worse. The Church taught it was
better for a man to have nonprocreative sex than with his innocent wife (sex
was only for reproductive reasons). To better understand this view, the Church
taught when it was OK to have sex with ones wife and when it was easier to
state when sex is forbidden.
"SEX IS FORBIDDEN WHEN A WOMAN IS MENSTRUATING, PREGNANT, NURSING, DURING LENT, ADVENT, WHITSUM WEEK AND EASTER WEEK. ON FEAST DAYS, FAST DAYS, SUNDAYS, WEDNESDAYS, FRIDAYS AND SATURDAYS. DURING THE DAYLIGHT. IF YOU ARE NAKED. IF YOU ARE IN A CHURCH. UNLESS YOU ARE TRYING TO PRODUCE A CHILD. NO FONDLING. NO LEWD KISSES. NO ORAL SEX. NO STRANGE POSITIONS. ONLY ONCE. TRY NOT TO ENJOY IT. WASH AFTERWARDS.
HOMOSEXUALITY
Canon Law and ecclesiastical councils had, by the end of the
12th century, effectively stigmatized homosexuality. The Church had
no formal laws against lesbianism. In their view it did not exist, therefore
there could not be punishments for it. Yet, the Church did have rules regarding
where and how the Sisters were to sleep. For male homosexuality the Church had
many regulations and punishments pertaining to it. Mutual Masturbation by men
over twenty first offense might be 40 days penance or fined, while anal
intercourse could be a penance of 7 years, a fine or forfeit of life. From the
6th to 11th Century, homosexuality was given very little
consideration by the Church. Societies in different times and places had varied
dispositions on the subject. The Vikings had words for the different aspects of
homosexuality: a man who shunned marriage was called a "fuoflogi" (man who
flees the female sex organ), while a woman was a "flannfluga" (woman who flees
the male sex organ). History of the Vikings show us that there was nothing
unusual or shameful about male homosexuality as long as you were the dominant
partner, however, the passive partner was ridiculed. The Germans also had a
word for men of Renaissance Florence. Florenzer in German means 'Sodomite'. In
the late 15th Century. One in two Florentine men had come to the
attention of the authorities for sodomy by the time they were thirty. In the 70
years from 1432 to 1502, some 17,000 men in a city of only 40,000 were
investigated for sodomy; 3000 were convicted and thousands more confessed to
gain amnesty. The attitude at that time seems to have been age-defined; boys
under 18 the passive partner, youths in their 20's the dominant participant,
and men around the age of 30 put aside such sport to settle and marry.
Throughout the medieval time period, the homosexuals we know best were Royalty:
King James I&VI, King Henry II and III, King Richard I, Robert, Duke of
Normandy as well as many others. We should also not forget the 14th-century
union between Edward II and his queen, Isabella of France. It was a
relationship not without its stresses, including the fact that Edward had a
stable of perfumed male lovers. Isabella was sufficiently dissatisfied with
this arrangement that she staged a rebellion with her lover in 1326, forced her
husband to renounce the throne in favor of their son, Edward III, then had the
former king murdered in a particularly distressing way involving a red-hot
poker.
CONTRACEPTION
The Medieval Church was against any form of contraception,
whether it was certain positions, herbs, devices (such as a condom) or the
popular, but not very effective rhythm method. Below are some methods used to
prevent pregnancy:
Condoms: condon,
meaning "receptacle." Condoms were made from sheepskin, snakeskin, other animal
intestines and later linen. Sometimes with lemon juice and vinegar added which
acted as a spermicidal. They did not understand that the lemon and vinegar
changed the PH level in the vagina, they just knew it worked.
Pessaries: (vaginal suppositories): According
to an ancient medical manuscript called the Ebers Papyrus (1550B.C.), women
were advised to grind together dates, acacia (a tree bark), and a touch of
honey into a moist paste, dip seed wool into the sweet gel and place in vulva.
It was very effective, for Acacia ferments into lactic acid, a well know
spermicidal, it also could have sealed up the cervix. Women were also told to
put into themselves cotton mix with lemon, dried fish mixed with lemon, wool
soaked olive oil (Aristotle's suggestion) various herbs, cow dung mixed with
honey, and the Kahun Papyrus (1850B.C.) refers to a pessary of crocodile dung
and fermented dough.
Coitus Interruptus The act of
interrupting intercourse before the man had ejaculated was a common practice,
which was as effective then has it is today.
Plants:
Plants have been used as birth control and as
abortifacients for centuries. One of the oldest known effective plants for
birth control was called silphium, a member of the Ferula genus. The
plant was used well before 370B.C. And was so popular and effective it was used
to extinction by the 3rd or 4th Century. There are many
different plants that have been used over the years, most are poisonous and the
effective recipes lost. One of the most effective and used as long ago as 2,000
years is Queen Anne's Lace or Wild Carrot. Hippocrates wrote of it and in the
late 1980 scientists began studying it and found (in mice) that it blocked the
production of progesterone and inhibited fetal and ovarian growth. Queen Anna's
Lace is also known as Mother Die, because if you brought it into the house
(according to superstition) your mother would die. Other plants long known for
contraceptive properties include: pennyroyal (very toxic), asafoetida
(related to silphium), myrrh, rue, willow, date palm, pomegranate (the skin),
cabbage, pine, onions, and acacia gum. The problem with plants is that nature
is every changing; it is difficult to evaluate a productive dose. For last
year's plant would have only needed a drop to work, while this year's might
need a tablespoon. Also identification, the risk of over medication, not having
the correct recipe and the risk of illness or death, make contraceptive plants
a subject needing extensive study. Something a little different: Countless
women died because of childbirth, and in some cases one more mouth was one too
many, and there was those women for whom a baby (or, his baby) would be very
inconvenient. So numerous things were tried: potions, dances, positions and
superstitions. Women were told to undulate their hips during the act (to drive
the sperm away), after sex they should get on their knees and sneeze. To place
pepper into the mouth of the uterus, as if to 'sneeze' closer to the source.
Bloodletting was a common practice. Jumping up and down after was thought very
effective. As was douches made of herbs, blood, oils and animal excrement. The
douches probably did produce results; the infection, from placing such items
within, could have produced an abortion.
The study of sexual practice, beliefs, views and
superstitions is an enticing subject. Our forefathers and foremothers explored
many facets of the sexual experience. One of the major changes to the medieval
sexual world was one the crusaders came home and brought many new and
delightful ideas with them such as the Kama Sutra. It has been said that there
is nothing new under the sun and this holds true within the medieval sexual
world. Sexual devices, S&M, zoophillia, chastity belts, castration, sexual
positions sexual perversions, and sexual abuse were well known to them. Though
the Church taught that sex should not be enjoyed, history shows that it was and
much attention was given to its fulfillment. We have proof of this because of
the introduction and role aphrodisiacs played in society. Take the peach for
example: The Chinese have long associated the peach with ripe sexuality. Its
red blush color, silken fuzzy skin, juicy flesh and aroma make it a natural
choice. Take a peek at Edouard Manet's once controversial painting, Dejeuner
sur l'Herbe, and while your eye will first turn to look at the beautiful
nude woman sitting next to the two clothed scholars, you will also notice the
succulent peaches and other fruits she has brought to this very sensuous
picnic. Everything that is ripe, sensual and arousing, the artist has placed in
her corner of the painting. Very stimulating.
Sonja Borough (SCA Lady Eden Blacksmith lives in Kingman, AZ with her loving and understanding husband. She brew up in the restaurant business and has been cooking professionally for over 20 years. She now works on Ebay putting up auctions. For the past 10 years she has been studying the more sensual side of medieval life. You can reach her at edenblacksmith@usa.net.
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